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LEARNING TO LIVE WELL WITH PAIN

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Volunteer Cornwall
Queens Nursing Institute
Community Hub Network
NHS Kernow
Farming Health Hub
Cornwall Council
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You can learn to live well with pain.

Medication isn't the only way to manage persistent pain.

Scientific evidence suggests that people with pain can have more rewarding lives if they learn particular skills.

Working with people who live with chronic pain and health professionals, we have created a network of Pain cafes to support you in your journey to have a better quality of life

Find your pain café find your pain cafe

Find your nearest pain cafe and join your local community learning to live well with pain

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Arbennek Health Pain Café

Next event: TBC

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Bodmin Pain Café

Next event: Thursday, 9 January 2025 at 11:00

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Sandra Dumas

Bude Pain Café

Next event: Thursday, 9 January 2025 at 10:00

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LIBBY HUDDY

Camelford Leisure Centre Pain Café

Next event: Tuesday, 14 January 2025 at 10:30

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LIBBY HUDDY

Carnon Downs Pain Café

Next event: Tuesday, 14 January 2025 at 13:30

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Falmouth and Penryn Pain Café

Next event: TBC

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LIBBY HUDDY

Farming Health Hub Pain Café

Next event: Wednesday, 22 January 2025 at 09:00

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henri.sloan@nhs.net

Hayle Pain Café

Next event: Tuesday, 28 January 2025 at 13:00

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LIBBY HUDDY

Help for Heroes Pain Café

Next event: TBC

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Helston Pain Café

Next event: Tuesday, 21 January 2025 at 13:00

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Launceston and Tamar Valley Pain Café

Next event: TBC

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Liskeard Pain Café Pain Café

Next event: Tuesday, 28 January 2025 at 10:00

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LIBBY HUDDY

Newlyn Pain Café

Next event: Saturday, 11 January 2025 at 10:00

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Julie Westwood - Julie@storehousenewquay.co.uk

Newquay Pain Café

Next event: Monday, 20 January 2025 at 12:30

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Contact - Libby Huddy and Vicky Taylor - libby.huddy@imagineif.net

North Kerrier West Pain Café

Next event: TBC

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Par Pain Café

Next event: Thursday, 16 January 2025 at 11:00

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LIBBY HUDDY

Penzance Pain Café

Next event: TBC

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Perranporth Pain Café

Next event: Tuesday, 7 January 2025 at 14:00

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Contact - social.prescribing1@nhs.net

St Austell Pain Café

Next event: TBC

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Contact - social.prescribing1@nhs.net

St Austell Healthcare Pain Café

Next event: Thursday, 9 January 2025 at 13:00

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St Ives Pain Café

Next event: Friday, 17 January 2025 at 13:00

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Libby Huddy - Imagineif

Troon Pain Café

Next event: Wednesday, 8 January 2025 at 13:30

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Libby Huddy - libby.huddy@imagineif.net

Truro Pain Café

Next event: Thursday, 16 January 2025 at 13:00

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Wadebridge Pain Café

Next event: Wednesday, 22 January 2025 at 13:30

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Supporting our local cafés there is also our Cornwall-wide group

Kevin Feaviour

Online Pain Café - Last Thursday of each month Pain Café

This Pain Café is slightly different from the rest in that it covers the whole of the county. Online only and open to all, feel free to join us if you are interested in our current topic or need a refresher.

Next Topic: Footstep 1: Pain and the Brain

Next event: Thursday, 30 January 2025 at 12:00

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Hear from people who have been at the cafes.

Community comments

This is the only space I can really share and say this stuff. I don’t really talk about how I’m feeling with my family, because I know how they’ll react and I don’t like to burden them with it all

Being able to discuss at the pain café – to be listened to. Hearing people moan about pain must be very boring but to have someone listen and support is a great help.

The café allows me to be me. They understand my ups and downs and have given me info and understand my pain is okay and be always present and helps me work out what can help me.

You don’t feel pressure to come every time, but it’s really nice to know that it’s there for you when you do need the support.

A cheerful, uplifting atmosphere emphasis on the positives the can-do and not the can’t do. No pressure to be a doing to do or do anything take everything at your own pace.

I am feeling better mentally - more positive - I don’t feel my pain is as intense.

Sense of community – it’s less lonely dealing with pain just being able to meet those like you as you can’t really understand what it is like unless you’ve been through it.

It certainly helps to be in a like-minded group with peer support and suggestions - the mindfulness session is a great help.

The group is friendly and welcoming, listening to others who have experienced similar problems to me is excellent as sometimes I feel you are the only one with that particular pain…

Good to have some understanding people around.

I enjoy taking time out to share thoughts with people who know what it’s like to have hidden pain – we all suffer from varying ailments but the thing we share in common is pain & that doesn’t vary irrespective of age or gender.

People do not understand – they don’t see you as in pain. I can be embarrassing. At least here you can share and be honest.

I wish my family and friends could understand as much.

Learning about setting goals, pacing, and managing mood has helped me gain more control. Considering my medication and its side effects (with a view of asking my GP to try and reduce it) feels empowering.

I still have pain and reduced movement but now feel in more control.

I have several methods I am doing to manage my pain without medication like doing movement, meditation, and breathing.

Techniques at the pain café have helped a lot.

Yes, more control and more empowered don’t always reach for the tramadol or co-codamol; some is reduce my pain by controlled breathing.

On a separate note, my mum loves the Perranporth pain café and has found it incredibly helpful, she cannot praise Libby highly enough and loves that she is flexible in her approach. As her daughter, I can also feedback that I am really grateful that Libby has enough insight to see that my mum actually needs encouraging to take her pain meds (she is waiting on a double hip replacement) alongside the work they are doing and my mum actually listens to Libby which is brilliant.

Ten Footsteps to Living Well with Pain
Ten Footsteps to Living Well with Pain

We are working with people coming to the cafes to develop tools and techniques to support people to manage their pain.

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Pain and the Brain

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Acceptance

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Pacing

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Setting goals

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Relaxation and mindfulness

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Sleep

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Communication

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Managing moods

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Medicines and nutrition

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Managing setbacks

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